A chart from a new Afghan opinion survey done by the International Republican Institute expresses how much the situation there changed over the last five years. While the people say that they are now economically better off, their biggest concern is security. In total they feel the situation is getting worse (DK/REF= don't know/refrain to answer).

As the WaPo documents today, despite lost of money spend, reconstruction and economic help was largely ineffective.
But what is to be done about security, the main concern? The poll, which is mostly about Karzai's reelection, has only one real question about that issue and I find the large approval thereto quite astonishing:

Answering another question people say they now have more personal freedom than under the Taliban. So do people prefer security over personal freedom?
My guess is they do. So Karzai should talk with the Taliban and find a compromise with them. But the Taliban's main demand is the withdrawal of the foreign troops and the U.S. is not yet willing to think about that.
The situation for the people will therefore likely get worse.